"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A little problem

tubagiant89

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There's tis pretty hot chick who has her locker next to me, and has had it by me since 6 grade (we're now Juniors). We've both become really good friends, and we joke around. I'd love to ask her out, but there's one problem; she's always hanging out with all these thug types.
Some of them aren't that bad, but there are some who are African American who are really annoying. How could I distinguish myself from these people and ask her out?
Before I take your comments, I should describe one of these guys. He's about a year younger than me, and talks a lot of ****, is always being physical with the chick, but backs down when he pisses me off. He is just an annoying pest, but one that won't go away.
Any suggestions on handling the dude and getting the girl?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DXX

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kill the dude in front of the chick and she's all urs.

No seriously, its hard to give advice on ur situation because we'd have to be there to really know wtf is going on. It's all too vague
 

Nobody

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Any girl that hangs out with negros, likes the negro **** and the negro attitude. You have no chance unless you're a wigger.
 

i am me

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/\that aint true...she might be turned off if youre a super prep kinda guy but it sounds like u get along with her so u hav a chance. does she go out wit the thug type or does she jus hang out wit em sometimes?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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