"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A little insight and help please on getting a girl and confidence

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Hey i'am new to the forum,looker but never posted.I would like some advice on what to do b/c quite frankly i am totally lost on where to begin,so i'll tell you about my self first.

About Me:I am going into my 2nd year of college this fall,finally goin away,had to live at home first yr.In hs i was a loser,and i could never get any chicks to even talk to me,so in esence i never got a chance to get close to one,nor was i invited to any parties or social functions,but i always had my small group of friends,who were misfits like me.I also am overweight.I do have a severe lack of confidence,that i have been told everyone can spot from a mile away,and when i have gone up to a girl i never know what to do or say.I don't know where it comes from.I would like to know what i can do about building up said confidence and as well as help as what to do around girls,if i can get advice that would help so much,and i think i do have a couple things that are good:I drive a fairly new Accord EX,i make some money as a car detaler and i have been told a times i can be witty at least being among friends.Any advice will be appreciated and will awnser any ?'s if needed.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Join a fraternity. You will learn how to be social, and they will have events where sororities party with you.

Learn by experience. That is what you will do.

Just make sure you can get into the fraternity. Don't be shy, and be talkative to all the brothers.
 
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I second the fraternity idea, my life has definitely changed since joining. Why thrive on the negatives? It's good that you are looking to improve yourself. You're already ahead of 90% of the crowd. Now, read the bible, learn some things, and get out there and talk to people. I don't care who it is, go up to a stranger and start the conversation. RUN the conversation. If you're insecure about your weight, goto the gym and go on a diet. All it takes is will power. Once you start doing these things, and see that you have willpower, you will no longer be insecure.
 
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