"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A little insight and help please on getting a girl and confidence

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Hey i'am new to the forum,looker but never posted.I would like some advice on what to do b/c quite frankly i am totally lost on where to begin,so i'll tell you about my self first.

About Me:I am going into my 2nd year of college this fall,finally goin away,had to live at home first yr.In hs i was a loser,and i could never get any chicks to even talk to me,so in esence i never got a chance to get close to one,nor was i invited to any parties or social functions,but i always had my small group of friends,who were misfits like me.I also am overweight.I do have a severe lack of confidence,that i have been told everyone can spot from a mile away,and when i have gone up to a girl i never know what to do or say.I don't know where it comes from.I would like to know what i can do about building up said confidence and as well as help as what to do around girls,if i can get advice that would help so much,and i think i do have a couple things that are good:I drive a fairly new Accord EX,i make some money as a car detaler and i have been told a times i can be witty at least being among friends.Any advice will be appreciated and will awnser any ?'s if needed.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Join a fraternity. You will learn how to be social, and they will have events where sororities party with you.

Learn by experience. That is what you will do.

Just make sure you can get into the fraternity. Don't be shy, and be talkative to all the brothers.
 
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I second the fraternity idea, my life has definitely changed since joining. Why thrive on the negatives? It's good that you are looking to improve yourself. You're already ahead of 90% of the crowd. Now, read the bible, learn some things, and get out there and talk to people. I don't care who it is, go up to a stranger and start the conversation. RUN the conversation. If you're insecure about your weight, goto the gym and go on a diet. All it takes is will power. Once you start doing these things, and see that you have willpower, you will no longer be insecure.
 
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