"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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a little advice please?

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I'm in one of the best dating places I can ask for at my age: college. I'm only 20 and there are lots of girls to talk to and date. However, I kind of messed around too much (slacked off) and had a state of depression which made things worse so I'm most likely gonna need another year to graduate (so 5 years instead of 4).

Most of my older buddies know about it since it's a small school and you know mostly everyone, but the new class doesn't really know about it.

How do I go about still talking to girls I'm interested in? Do I lie or just don't worry about it?
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hey man read the DJ bible and read some articles...that will give you the knowledge you seek..
 
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I've read the Bible, but it's not really applicable in my situation. Check my edit for more info.
 
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alright man...heres the dice...you said small school so everyone already knows about your slacking off except the incoming class. you want to approach some HB but u cant cause you see urself as a failure from the past semesters. Lying to them wont do any good....its really not applicable, you said urself that its a small school and everyone knows everyone....whatever...
lying will just make you look weak...accept ur defeat from the past so that you can strive forward and be successfull. Dont let ur past failures anchor u down..its time to move on. I dont think bit*chez really care about how u goofed off too much in the past.....doesn't really matter cause its history. Show ambition for the present and the future....girls really dig ambition...keep approaching and if ur past is a touchy subject dont bring it up just roll wit' it. GL.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by tobby
I've read the Bible, but it's not really applicable in my situation. Check my edit for more info.
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I fail to see how it's "not applicable" to you simply because you're at a small college and are taking longer to graduate. The principles of attraction haven't changed simply because of the size of the school you go to or the length of time you're there for. Girls haven't changed because you're going to take 5 years to graduate instead of 4. The only thing that's changed is your own mindset... either you can be stuck in it, complacent to say "it doesn't apply to me", or you can push yourself out of your comfort zone and utilize the knowledge already on this site.

Since "how do I attract girls" isn't exactly a new question on the forum, closed.
 
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