"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A little advice please

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Ok, there's this girl that I am going to homecoming with. I didn't ask her; we both kind of agreed through a mutual friend. So last night I called her and we talked for a short period (no more than 5 minutes). Later that night she told me to call her today whenever I want to.

So do I call her now or what, because Homecoming starts in 2 hours.

I don't know what to do. This was probably a stupid post in the first place.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by gammapibeta123


So do I call her now or what, because Homecoming starts in 2 hours.


WTF are you doing on the internet?!

Call her right now. Damn.
 

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if its in 2 hours and she wants you to call to talk to you then do as you please, if its to arrange osmtinhg to do with homecomming then call her now
 

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Well, being 1 hour and 45 minutes away from the dance, she's probably busy getting ready. She had a busy schedule today.

If she mentions my not calling I'll just say I was busy as well. Besides, isn't that one of the tips in the DJ Bible?
 

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Moved to Highschool Forum

damn...

I'd say not call her, pick her up etc etc.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't know what to do. This was probably a stupid post in the first place.

No comment. Call the girl and get to your gig. This is one of the problems with playin games with ho's. I much preffer to be direct and upfront.....no games. No waiting 7 days before I call her back.

I guess cause I'm not a symp (chump) so I don't get taken advantage of.

OHHHH ShYYYYYYTTTT. I was not aware that this post ended up in the High School section. This is the first time I've ever posted here even though it was accidental.

Forgive the intrustion fellas

I will never be back here.
 
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MOD:

Hey what gives. I thought you moved this to the Kiddy section. Good. thanks. I always brag about having never looked into that section and it still stands.
 

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MOD:

Hey what gives. I thought you moved this to the Kiddy section. Good. thanks. I always brag about having never looked into that section and it still stands.
hahaha your smart


thats all i gotta say
 
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Originally posted by gammapibeta123
Ok, there's this girl that I am going to homecoming with. I didn't ask her; we both kind of agreed through a mutual friend.
This was/is weak!!!

Avoid all communication at all costs!!:rolleyes:
 
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