"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok, there's this girl that I am going to homecoming with. I didn't ask her; we both kind of agreed through a mutual friend. So last night I called her and we talked for a short period (no more than 5 minutes). Later that night she told me to call her today whenever I want to.

So do I call her now or what, because Homecoming starts in 2 hours.

I don't know what to do. This was probably a stupid post in the first place.

Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by gammapibeta123


So do I call her now or what, because Homecoming starts in 2 hours.


WTF are you doing on the internet?!

Call her right now. Damn.
 

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if its in 2 hours and she wants you to call to talk to you then do as you please, if its to arrange osmtinhg to do with homecomming then call her now
 

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Well, being 1 hour and 45 minutes away from the dance, she's probably busy getting ready. She had a busy schedule today.

If she mentions my not calling I'll just say I was busy as well. Besides, isn't that one of the tips in the DJ Bible?
 

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damn...

I'd say not call her, pick her up etc etc.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't know what to do. This was probably a stupid post in the first place.

No comment. Call the girl and get to your gig. This is one of the problems with playin games with ho's. I much preffer to be direct and upfront.....no games. No waiting 7 days before I call her back.

I guess cause I'm not a symp (chump) so I don't get taken advantage of.

OHHHH ShYYYYYYTTTT. I was not aware that this post ended up in the High School section. This is the first time I've ever posted here even though it was accidental.

Forgive the intrustion fellas

I will never be back here.
 
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Hey what gives. I thought you moved this to the Kiddy section. Good. thanks. I always brag about having never looked into that section and it still stands.
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
MOD:

Hey what gives. I thought you moved this to the Kiddy section. Good. thanks. I always brag about having never looked into that section and it still stands.
hahaha your smart


thats all i gotta say
 
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Originally posted by gammapibeta123
Ok, there's this girl that I am going to homecoming with. I didn't ask her; we both kind of agreed through a mutual friend.
This was/is weak!!!

Avoid all communication at all costs!!:rolleyes:
 
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