"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A List Of Bold Questions To Ask Women

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I like taking risks and breaking the norm by asking bold questions when dating. Some might find this "offensive" but when done confidently and in the right tone, it has the effect of greatly increasing a womans attraction to you. For example a question I like to ask first dates is:

How recently was the last time you got laid? (or some variation of that)
Ever had a threesome with another girl?
What is the riskiest place you've ever had sex?
What is the most embarassing thing that's happened to you on a date?
Have you ever visited a nude beach or wanted to?

What questions do you guys ask women you're dating that you'd consider bold / ****y / daring / risky?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BeyondCharm said:
For example a question I like to ask first dates is:
How recently was the last time you got laid? (or some variation of that)
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I don't know anything, but that doesn't sound very James Bondish like it would make her knees weak.
 
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DonJuan11 said:
I don't know anything, but that doesn't sound very James Bondish like it would make her knees weak.
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Hahaha. Nice sarcasm. :crackup: But really, that's not an opening question, but in dialogue its one that pushes the boundaries into sex. If you were a mystery method subscriber, it would be looked at like s1 or s2, after you built comfort and were sure you had attraction or if you just want to see a reaction.

If you "try" to sound james bondish, you'll come across as "trying to be suave". I'm all about being real. If there is something I want to ask her, I'll ask, and i'll do so confidently.
 
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Whats your favorite position.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Oh I have another one:

What's one of your sexual fantasy's that you'd like to have someday fulfilled?
 
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Want to go have sex?

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Guess how many prostitutes I fvcked in Thailand with no condom. :D
 
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DonJuan11 said:
I don't know anything, but that doesn't sound very James Bondish like it would make her knees weak.
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LOL, and "Should you floss before or after you brush" sure does.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Want to fvck?
 
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"I hear you're horrible in bed."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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this was a conversation with my female acquaintence.

Her: "I love to play sports!"
Me: "What kind of sports do you play?"
Her: "Soccer, softball [blah blah blah]"
Me: "Do you play any water sports?"
Her: ":eek: "
My girlfriend: ":eek: "
My male friend: "You know, water polo?"
Her: "You will just have to see..."

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