"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A List Of Bold Questions To Ask Women

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I like taking risks and breaking the norm by asking bold questions when dating. Some might find this "offensive" but when done confidently and in the right tone, it has the effect of greatly increasing a womans attraction to you. For example a question I like to ask first dates is:

How recently was the last time you got laid? (or some variation of that)
Ever had a threesome with another girl?
What is the riskiest place you've ever had sex?
What is the most embarassing thing that's happened to you on a date?
Have you ever visited a nude beach or wanted to?

What questions do you guys ask women you're dating that you'd consider bold / ****y / daring / risky?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BeyondCharm said:
For example a question I like to ask first dates is:
How recently was the last time you got laid? (or some variation of that)
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I don't know anything, but that doesn't sound very James Bondish like it would make her knees weak.
 
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DonJuan11 said:
I don't know anything, but that doesn't sound very James Bondish like it would make her knees weak.
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Hahaha. Nice sarcasm. :crackup: But really, that's not an opening question, but in dialogue its one that pushes the boundaries into sex. If you were a mystery method subscriber, it would be looked at like s1 or s2, after you built comfort and were sure you had attraction or if you just want to see a reaction.

If you "try" to sound james bondish, you'll come across as "trying to be suave". I'm all about being real. If there is something I want to ask her, I'll ask, and i'll do so confidently.
 
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Whats your favorite position.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh I have another one:

What's one of your sexual fantasy's that you'd like to have someday fulfilled?
 
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Want to go have sex?

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Guess how many prostitutes I fvcked in Thailand with no condom. :D
 
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DonJuan11 said:
I don't know anything, but that doesn't sound very James Bondish like it would make her knees weak.
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LOL, and "Should you floss before or after you brush" sure does.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Want to fvck?
 
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"I hear you're horrible in bed."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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this was a conversation with my female acquaintence.

Her: "I love to play sports!"
Me: "What kind of sports do you play?"
Her: "Soccer, softball [blah blah blah]"
Me: "Do you play any water sports?"
Her: ":eek: "
My girlfriend: ":eek: "
My male friend: "You know, water polo?"
Her: "You will just have to see..."

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