"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A List Of Bold Questions To Ask Women

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I like taking risks and breaking the norm by asking bold questions when dating. Some might find this "offensive" but when done confidently and in the right tone, it has the effect of greatly increasing a womans attraction to you. For example a question I like to ask first dates is:

How recently was the last time you got laid? (or some variation of that)
Ever had a threesome with another girl?
What is the riskiest place you've ever had sex?
What is the most embarassing thing that's happened to you on a date?
Have you ever visited a nude beach or wanted to?

What questions do you guys ask women you're dating that you'd consider bold / ****y / daring / risky?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BeyondCharm said:
For example a question I like to ask first dates is:
How recently was the last time you got laid? (or some variation of that)
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I don't know anything, but that doesn't sound very James Bondish like it would make her knees weak.
 
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DonJuan11 said:
I don't know anything, but that doesn't sound very James Bondish like it would make her knees weak.
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Hahaha. Nice sarcasm. :crackup: But really, that's not an opening question, but in dialogue its one that pushes the boundaries into sex. If you were a mystery method subscriber, it would be looked at like s1 or s2, after you built comfort and were sure you had attraction or if you just want to see a reaction.

If you "try" to sound james bondish, you'll come across as "trying to be suave". I'm all about being real. If there is something I want to ask her, I'll ask, and i'll do so confidently.
 
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Whats your favorite position.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Oh I have another one:

What's one of your sexual fantasy's that you'd like to have someday fulfilled?
 
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Want to go have sex?

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Guess how many prostitutes I fvcked in Thailand with no condom. :D
 
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DonJuan11 said:
I don't know anything, but that doesn't sound very James Bondish like it would make her knees weak.
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LOL, and "Should you floss before or after you brush" sure does.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Want to fvck?
 
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"I hear you're horrible in bed."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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this was a conversation with my female acquaintence.

Her: "I love to play sports!"
Me: "What kind of sports do you play?"
Her: "Soccer, softball [blah blah blah]"
Me: "Do you play any water sports?"
Her: ":eek: "
My girlfriend: ":eek: "
My male friend: "You know, water polo?"
Her: "You will just have to see..."

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