"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A List Of Bold Questions To Ask Women

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I like taking risks and breaking the norm by asking bold questions when dating. Some might find this "offensive" but when done confidently and in the right tone, it has the effect of greatly increasing a womans attraction to you. For example a question I like to ask first dates is:

How recently was the last time you got laid? (or some variation of that)
Ever had a threesome with another girl?
What is the riskiest place you've ever had sex?
What is the most embarassing thing that's happened to you on a date?
Have you ever visited a nude beach or wanted to?

What questions do you guys ask women you're dating that you'd consider bold / ****y / daring / risky?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BeyondCharm said:
For example a question I like to ask first dates is:
How recently was the last time you got laid? (or some variation of that)
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I don't know anything, but that doesn't sound very James Bondish like it would make her knees weak.
 
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DonJuan11 said:
I don't know anything, but that doesn't sound very James Bondish like it would make her knees weak.
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Hahaha. Nice sarcasm. :crackup: But really, that's not an opening question, but in dialogue its one that pushes the boundaries into sex. If you were a mystery method subscriber, it would be looked at like s1 or s2, after you built comfort and were sure you had attraction or if you just want to see a reaction.

If you "try" to sound james bondish, you'll come across as "trying to be suave". I'm all about being real. If there is something I want to ask her, I'll ask, and i'll do so confidently.
 
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Whats your favorite position.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Oh I have another one:

What's one of your sexual fantasy's that you'd like to have someday fulfilled?
 
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Want to go have sex?

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Guess how many prostitutes I fvcked in Thailand with no condom. :D
 
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DonJuan11 said:
I don't know anything, but that doesn't sound very James Bondish like it would make her knees weak.
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LOL, and "Should you floss before or after you brush" sure does.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Want to fvck?
 
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"I hear you're horrible in bed."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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this was a conversation with my female acquaintence.

Her: "I love to play sports!"
Me: "What kind of sports do you play?"
Her: "Soccer, softball [blah blah blah]"
Me: "Do you play any water sports?"
Her: ":eek: "
My girlfriend: ":eek: "
My male friend: "You know, water polo?"
Her: "You will just have to see..."

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