"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A lesson or two from ELIMIDATe!!! Funny is good. WEIRD IS BAD.

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Ever seen the stupid show??? Well, its like watching a train wreck but there are a FEW actually useful things.

You can TELL WHO"S GONNA WIN ALMOST RIGHT AWAY BECAUSE most of the guys ELIMINATE THEMSELVES.

Here's the usual outcome:
1. One of the guys is the "goofy" dude. He tries to win the girl through sheer craziness. At first this resembles ****y and f unny but quickly it turns into WEIRDness. He's the first kicked off. If he would have shut his mouth, been nuts within limits, and then he would have stayed around.

2. Another guy makes the mistake of BLURTING OUT SOMETHING SCARY about himself. He has said too much. Once again, keeping his mouth shut was better. You know the drill....he admits something : "i like to get in touch with my femine side.

Guys, weird comments cross the line. She never forgets them.

3. Well, now its down to two guys. These two guys might be boring, but they havnt eliminated themselves.

Right now she's looking to see who can actually hold a conversation, has a decent job, and keeps himself in shape .

But once again one of the two usually eliminates himself by doing something stupid.

The lesson here is=-------Be fun, and funny, but dont be WEIRD.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sad. Sad. Sad.

I've only had the pleasure of seeing such cr@p one time.

It seemed to me that every guy on the show was an AFC.
It was too hard to sit through an entire episode because
i felt soo embarrassed for the guys...
It was sad.


:(
 

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I understand where you're coming from, but if a girl likes you, little else really matters. She will love you being weird too.
 

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Originally posted by Walk this Way
I understand where you're coming from, but if a girl likes you, little else really matters. She will love you being weird too.
I agree with this. If you are your trueself and if the girl doesn't like it... she won't like it - who gives a shiat. Didn't see the Elimicrap episode but you have to admit to yourself.. it is TV not real life.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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