"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A lesson or two from ELIMIDATe!!! Funny is good. WEIRD IS BAD.

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Ever seen the stupid show??? Well, its like watching a train wreck but there are a FEW actually useful things.

You can TELL WHO"S GONNA WIN ALMOST RIGHT AWAY BECAUSE most of the guys ELIMINATE THEMSELVES.

Here's the usual outcome:
1. One of the guys is the "goofy" dude. He tries to win the girl through sheer craziness. At first this resembles ****y and f unny but quickly it turns into WEIRDness. He's the first kicked off. If he would have shut his mouth, been nuts within limits, and then he would have stayed around.

2. Another guy makes the mistake of BLURTING OUT SOMETHING SCARY about himself. He has said too much. Once again, keeping his mouth shut was better. You know the drill....he admits something : "i like to get in touch with my femine side.

Guys, weird comments cross the line. She never forgets them.

3. Well, now its down to two guys. These two guys might be boring, but they havnt eliminated themselves.

Right now she's looking to see who can actually hold a conversation, has a decent job, and keeps himself in shape .

But once again one of the two usually eliminates himself by doing something stupid.

The lesson here is=-------Be fun, and funny, but dont be WEIRD.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Spike_the_cowboy

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Sad. Sad. Sad.

I've only had the pleasure of seeing such cr@p one time.

It seemed to me that every guy on the show was an AFC.
It was too hard to sit through an entire episode because
i felt soo embarrassed for the guys...
It was sad.


:(
 

Walk this Way

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I understand where you're coming from, but if a girl likes you, little else really matters. She will love you being weird too.
 

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Originally posted by Walk this Way
I understand where you're coming from, but if a girl likes you, little else really matters. She will love you being weird too.
I agree with this. If you are your trueself and if the girl doesn't like it... she won't like it - who gives a shiat. Didn't see the Elimicrap episode but you have to admit to yourself.. it is TV not real life.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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