"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A John needs to "date" before getting sex?

MatureDJ

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http://www.slate.com/id/2186491/pagenum/2

They typically will only take a john via a referral, and even then, they may require that the john "date" them for weeks before deciding to offer up sex. I have heard of Tier 2 and 3 sex workers who vet prospective clients for months, sometimes hiring a private detective to see if the john is stable—psychologically and financially. As a former attorney general, Spitzer must have known all this.
WTF? The whole idea of employing a pro is "wam bam, thank you mam, here's a sam." If pros can demand to be wined and dined ...


But then again, at least the pros know how to act towards a man

"The last time I met him, I gave him a bath," she told me. "I told him he was the most sensitive man I'd ever met. I never tell him he's a piece of sh!t; I make him feel like superman."
Gosh, isn't that the way a wife is supposed to act?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MatureDJ said:
WTF? The whole idea of employing a pro is "wam bam, thank you mam, here's a sam." If pros can demand to be wined and dined ...
She's an escort. They operate a little differently to prostitutes who work in a brothel. In countries where prostitution is legalized and regulated, prostitutes also screen clients before deciding to serve them or not, although this process is much quicker than dating.

But then again, at least the pros know how to act towards a man

Gosh, isn't that the way a wife is supposed to act?
Great isn't it? Makes every man wanna get married... ;)
 

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That article isn't very accurate. The lowest, Tier One starts at $1000? I guess all the girls charging less than that are Tier Zero. Granted I don't live in New York so it might be different over there.

As for the whole needing to date them thing. I guess that only applies to the super expensive. As for why anybody would bother with all that, I don't have a clue.
 

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MatureDJ said:
http://www.slate.com/id/2186491/pagenum/2



WTF? The whole idea of employing a pro is "wam bam, thank you mam, here's a sam." If pros can demand to be wined and dined ...


But then again, at least the pros know how to act towards a man



Gosh, isn't that the way a wife is supposed to act?
Yup that is where we are at not with the male female dynamic... women can be prostitutes and still demand girlfriend treatment even though though they are being payed to serve the man.... There are simply too many men now so desperation is at an all time high such that things like this are possible
 

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Maxtro said:
As for the whole needing to date them thing. I guess that only applies to the super expensive. As for why anybody would bother with all that, I don't have a clue.
I think many john want to recreate the dating dynamic but while eliminating the annoying possibilty of being rejected later for sex... iTs like paying to live the perfect fantasy... 50 year old man with 22 year old hotty on a date , she keeps a perfect attitude the whole time and has sex at the end... what could be better....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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$10 000 a night! That's what I read these 'top-tier' prossers cost. For that money I'd expect them to piss champagne and lactate liquid cocaine. And turn into triplets.
 

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"A John needs to "date" before getting sex?"
Heheh,..not on Orange Blossom Trail he doesn't,..
 
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