"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A John needs to "date" before getting sex?

MatureDJ

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http://www.slate.com/id/2186491/pagenum/2

They typically will only take a john via a referral, and even then, they may require that the john "date" them for weeks before deciding to offer up sex. I have heard of Tier 2 and 3 sex workers who vet prospective clients for months, sometimes hiring a private detective to see if the john is stable—psychologically and financially. As a former attorney general, Spitzer must have known all this.
WTF? The whole idea of employing a pro is "wam bam, thank you mam, here's a sam." If pros can demand to be wined and dined ...


But then again, at least the pros know how to act towards a man

"The last time I met him, I gave him a bath," she told me. "I told him he was the most sensitive man I'd ever met. I never tell him he's a piece of sh!t; I make him feel like superman."
Gosh, isn't that the way a wife is supposed to act?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MatureDJ said:
WTF? The whole idea of employing a pro is "wam bam, thank you mam, here's a sam." If pros can demand to be wined and dined ...
She's an escort. They operate a little differently to prostitutes who work in a brothel. In countries where prostitution is legalized and regulated, prostitutes also screen clients before deciding to serve them or not, although this process is much quicker than dating.

But then again, at least the pros know how to act towards a man

Gosh, isn't that the way a wife is supposed to act?
Great isn't it? Makes every man wanna get married... ;)
 

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That article isn't very accurate. The lowest, Tier One starts at $1000? I guess all the girls charging less than that are Tier Zero. Granted I don't live in New York so it might be different over there.

As for the whole needing to date them thing. I guess that only applies to the super expensive. As for why anybody would bother with all that, I don't have a clue.
 

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MatureDJ said:
http://www.slate.com/id/2186491/pagenum/2



WTF? The whole idea of employing a pro is "wam bam, thank you mam, here's a sam." If pros can demand to be wined and dined ...


But then again, at least the pros know how to act towards a man



Gosh, isn't that the way a wife is supposed to act?
Yup that is where we are at not with the male female dynamic... women can be prostitutes and still demand girlfriend treatment even though though they are being payed to serve the man.... There are simply too many men now so desperation is at an all time high such that things like this are possible
 

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Maxtro said:
As for the whole needing to date them thing. I guess that only applies to the super expensive. As for why anybody would bother with all that, I don't have a clue.
I think many john want to recreate the dating dynamic but while eliminating the annoying possibilty of being rejected later for sex... iTs like paying to live the perfect fantasy... 50 year old man with 22 year old hotty on a date , she keeps a perfect attitude the whole time and has sex at the end... what could be better....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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$10 000 a night! That's what I read these 'top-tier' prossers cost. For that money I'd expect them to piss champagne and lactate liquid cocaine. And turn into triplets.
 

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"A John needs to "date" before getting sex?"
Heheh,..not on Orange Blossom Trail he doesn't,..
 
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