"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sevbucmash

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Have you ever been in confrontation with a person, that is impossible to reason with, and turned out tube an a-hole. Confronting just for the sake of confronting, because he is an a-hole. Just because.

I am in situation like this right now. Nothing I can do, but to ride this out. Yesterday wanted to kill him though, went outside chased him around. Guy got scared, instead of going to his home, ran around, thinking he could confuse me of where he lives. I had 1 hour of sleep in the past 48 and I figured out where he lives. Obviously what police says first, but if not, I'm not alone.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Have you ever been in confrontation with a person, that is impossible to reason with, and turned out tube an a-hole. Confronting just for the sake of confronting, because he is an a-hole. Just because.

I am in situation like this right now. Nothing I can do, but to ride this out. Yesterday wanted to kill him though, went outside chased him around. Guy got scared, instead of going to his home, ran around, thinking he could confuse me of where he lives. I had 1 hour of sleep in the past 48 and I figured out where he lives. Obviously what police says first, but if not, I'm not alone.
Obviously, we don't have the full context here, but when you are in a state of anger like that you'd better watch yourself.
 

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Let go trust me ive been there worst is when its a former coworker.
 
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Have you ever been in confrontation with a person, that is impossible to reason with, and turned out tube an a-hole. Confronting just for the sake of confronting, because he is an a-hole. Just because.

I am in situation like this right now. Nothing I can do, but to ride this out. Yesterday wanted to kill him though, went outside chased him around. Guy got scared, instead of going to his home, ran around, thinking he could confuse me of where he lives. I had 1 hour of sleep in the past 48 and I figured out where he lives. Obviously what police says first, but if not, I'm not alone.
You can get cheap cameras on Amazon or at Walmart. They can connect to your phone
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You guys should learn martial arts…some proficient styles like boxing, kickboxing…wrestling or brazilian juijitsu for ground game….then learn the art of meditation for keeping a cool head…then learn verbal judo for diffusing tense situations with speech and body language.


This will make you ready for a fight.

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Have you ever been in confrontation with a person, that is impossible to reason with, and turned out tube an a-hole. Confronting just for the sake of confronting, because he is an a-hole. Just because.

I am in situation like this right now. Nothing I can do, but to ride this out. Yesterday wanted to kill him though, went outside chased him around. Guy got scared, instead of going to his home, ran around, thinking he could confuse me of where he lives. I had 1 hour of sleep in the past 48 and I figured out where he lives. Obviously what police says first, but if not, I'm not alone.
Can you provide more context? What did he do?
 

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That's a clip from a television news broadcast, which YouTube now says is offensive. Road rage fat chick sucker punches a smaller guy, and that turns out to be a poor decision.
 

BackInTheGame78

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Most people eventually end up in the hospital or dead. You seem to want to get into arguments for no reason.

Grow up. As you mature, you realize these are pointless and usually only serve to greatly shorten your lifespan.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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