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Sounds like it's time for you to go shopping.samspade said:Luckily for me, I live in NYC, which is loaded with off the boat immigrants from all over.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sounds like it's time for you to go shopping.samspade said:Luckily for me, I live in NYC, which is loaded with off the boat immigrants from all over.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
samspade said:I live in NYC, which is loaded with off the boat immigrants from all over.
MidnightCity said:sometimes i wonder what some of you guys go through with these chix to think it makes sense to travel abroad for some "quality tail"
How exactly do those things help you when you are stuck with her bad attitude the rest of your life? And don't worry, there will be no more doggystyle after you marry a wetsern woman. No more BJ's either. Have fun with that c/nty attitude when it turns fat.MidnightCity said:i live in NYC too and i dont know what it is but i really dont have a problem with any of the women here.
they all have cvnt attitudes but that doesnt mean shlt when they're trying to run away from me during doggy style.
not to trivial anyones experience or provoke another thread of how evil women are but sometimes i wonder what some of you guys go through with these chix to think it makes sense to travel abroad for some "quality tail"
MidnightCity said:once she got her green card she divorced him with cash and prizes and *****s around like a typical american girl. women are women no matter where you are. this country just enables them more than other places.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Gentlemen, I had to comment on this - I agree with the OP. The Red Pill is a bitter pill. Once swallowed, it cannot be regurgitated - as it sticks in your throat. Yeah, I was that chump as well, but not any more. I look out for red flags and wait for her to fvck up. Three strikes - she's ouut!one of the hardest things for chumps to do is to admit to themselves that they fuked up and thats the reason they took the red pill to begin with
True, but there are bad apples in every culture - as I have found out.But some cultures are better at others at raising women,