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Sounds like it's time for you to go shopping.samspade said:Luckily for me, I live in NYC, which is loaded with off the boat immigrants from all over.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Sounds like it's time for you to go shopping.samspade said:Luckily for me, I live in NYC, which is loaded with off the boat immigrants from all over.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
samspade said:I live in NYC, which is loaded with off the boat immigrants from all over.
MidnightCity said:sometimes i wonder what some of you guys go through with these chix to think it makes sense to travel abroad for some "quality tail"
How exactly do those things help you when you are stuck with her bad attitude the rest of your life? And don't worry, there will be no more doggystyle after you marry a wetsern woman. No more BJ's either. Have fun with that c/nty attitude when it turns fat.MidnightCity said:i live in NYC too and i dont know what it is but i really dont have a problem with any of the women here.
they all have cvnt attitudes but that doesnt mean shlt when they're trying to run away from me during doggy style.
not to trivial anyones experience or provoke another thread of how evil women are but sometimes i wonder what some of you guys go through with these chix to think it makes sense to travel abroad for some "quality tail"
MidnightCity said:once she got her green card she divorced him with cash and prizes and *****s around like a typical american girl. women are women no matter where you are. this country just enables them more than other places.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Gentlemen, I had to comment on this - I agree with the OP. The Red Pill is a bitter pill. Once swallowed, it cannot be regurgitated - as it sticks in your throat. Yeah, I was that chump as well, but not any more. I look out for red flags and wait for her to fvck up. Three strikes - she's ouut!one of the hardest things for chumps to do is to admit to themselves that they fuked up and thats the reason they took the red pill to begin with
True, but there are bad apples in every culture - as I have found out.But some cultures are better at others at raising women,