Married Buried
Master Don Juan
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Sounds like it's time for you to go shopping.samspade said:Luckily for me, I live in NYC, which is loaded with off the boat immigrants from all over.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sounds like it's time for you to go shopping.samspade said:Luckily for me, I live in NYC, which is loaded with off the boat immigrants from all over.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
samspade said:I live in NYC, which is loaded with off the boat immigrants from all over.
MidnightCity said:sometimes i wonder what some of you guys go through with these chix to think it makes sense to travel abroad for some "quality tail"
How exactly do those things help you when you are stuck with her bad attitude the rest of your life? And don't worry, there will be no more doggystyle after you marry a wetsern woman. No more BJ's either. Have fun with that c/nty attitude when it turns fat.MidnightCity said:i live in NYC too and i dont know what it is but i really dont have a problem with any of the women here.
they all have cvnt attitudes but that doesnt mean shlt when they're trying to run away from me during doggy style.
not to trivial anyones experience or provoke another thread of how evil women are but sometimes i wonder what some of you guys go through with these chix to think it makes sense to travel abroad for some "quality tail"
MidnightCity said:once she got her green card she divorced him with cash and prizes and *****s around like a typical american girl. women are women no matter where you are. this country just enables them more than other places.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Gentlemen, I had to comment on this - I agree with the OP. The Red Pill is a bitter pill. Once swallowed, it cannot be regurgitated - as it sticks in your throat. Yeah, I was that chump as well, but not any more. I look out for red flags and wait for her to fvck up. Three strikes - she's ouut!one of the hardest things for chumps to do is to admit to themselves that they fuked up and thats the reason they took the red pill to begin with
True, but there are bad apples in every culture - as I have found out.But some cultures are better at others at raising women,