"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A HB8, who seems easy, but has a bf.

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Well, there is a HB8 who is coming to my town next week and probably is going to sleep at my place. I do not know her for too long, but I get along with her pretty well. She probably is attracted to me A BIT, but the problem is that she has a bf, who is not coming to my town, though, so he is far away.

The girl should be fairly easy, but she is not a slvt. I guess that when I would start some harder kino or even making out, she would be like "Sorry, but we have to stop - I have a bf blabla". What would a DJ say to encourage her make out or have sex, since her bf is real far away and is not going to find out anyway!?

Any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You could try Mystery's freezeout method. It worked for me!

I f-closed this LJBF chick I had known for 6 years at her ex-boyfriends place while he was out of the country.

Let me know if you need more info about the freezeout method. It is as effective as hell!
 

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Thank you for the reply. Some info would be nice, indeed. I searched "freezeout", but I do not think I find anything good.
 

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Basically....

The Freeze Out. This is Mystery's classic LMR tactic. If a girl stops you at a certain point as you are moving toward sex, and it is not simply token resistence, you STOP. Completely. Stop.

Say, "I understand." And go do something else. It is imperative not to come off as pouting. Rather, you're just communicating, "If you don't want to do this, that's cool."

But really, this is a punishment for her since she is aroused. You're saying, you don't get the reward of me arousing you unless you're willing to take this all the way.

Anyway, stop, go do something else (check your email, watch tv), then return, maybe touch her leg, and things will resume.

Then tell her to do the thing she wouldn't do before. She may go a little further then resist.

Then just follow the same process. Until she pounces on you with frustration. Continue as usual.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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