"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A HB8, who seems easy, but has a bf.

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Well, there is a HB8 who is coming to my town next week and probably is going to sleep at my place. I do not know her for too long, but I get along with her pretty well. She probably is attracted to me A BIT, but the problem is that she has a bf, who is not coming to my town, though, so he is far away.

The girl should be fairly easy, but she is not a slvt. I guess that when I would start some harder kino or even making out, she would be like "Sorry, but we have to stop - I have a bf blabla". What would a DJ say to encourage her make out or have sex, since her bf is real far away and is not going to find out anyway!?

Any suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You could try Mystery's freezeout method. It worked for me!

I f-closed this LJBF chick I had known for 6 years at her ex-boyfriends place while he was out of the country.

Let me know if you need more info about the freezeout method. It is as effective as hell!
 

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Thank you for the reply. Some info would be nice, indeed. I searched "freezeout", but I do not think I find anything good.
 

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Basically....

The Freeze Out. This is Mystery's classic LMR tactic. If a girl stops you at a certain point as you are moving toward sex, and it is not simply token resistence, you STOP. Completely. Stop.

Say, "I understand." And go do something else. It is imperative not to come off as pouting. Rather, you're just communicating, "If you don't want to do this, that's cool."

But really, this is a punishment for her since she is aroused. You're saying, you don't get the reward of me arousing you unless you're willing to take this all the way.

Anyway, stop, go do something else (check your email, watch tv), then return, maybe touch her leg, and things will resume.

Then tell her to do the thing she wouldn't do before. She may go a little further then resist.

Then just follow the same process. Until she pounces on you with frustration. Continue as usual.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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