"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A HB8, who seems easy, but has a bf.

ASD :)

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Well, there is a HB8 who is coming to my town next week and probably is going to sleep at my place. I do not know her for too long, but I get along with her pretty well. She probably is attracted to me A BIT, but the problem is that she has a bf, who is not coming to my town, though, so he is far away.

The girl should be fairly easy, but she is not a slvt. I guess that when I would start some harder kino or even making out, she would be like "Sorry, but we have to stop - I have a bf blabla". What would a DJ say to encourage her make out or have sex, since her bf is real far away and is not going to find out anyway!?

Any suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You could try Mystery's freezeout method. It worked for me!

I f-closed this LJBF chick I had known for 6 years at her ex-boyfriends place while he was out of the country.

Let me know if you need more info about the freezeout method. It is as effective as hell!
 

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Thank you for the reply. Some info would be nice, indeed. I searched "freezeout", but I do not think I find anything good.
 

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Basically....

The Freeze Out. This is Mystery's classic LMR tactic. If a girl stops you at a certain point as you are moving toward sex, and it is not simply token resistence, you STOP. Completely. Stop.

Say, "I understand." And go do something else. It is imperative not to come off as pouting. Rather, you're just communicating, "If you don't want to do this, that's cool."

But really, this is a punishment for her since she is aroused. You're saying, you don't get the reward of me arousing you unless you're willing to take this all the way.

Anyway, stop, go do something else (check your email, watch tv), then return, maybe touch her leg, and things will resume.

Then tell her to do the thing she wouldn't do before. She may go a little further then resist.

Then just follow the same process. Until she pounces on you with frustration. Continue as usual.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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