"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A HB8, who seems easy, but has a bf.

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Well, there is a HB8 who is coming to my town next week and probably is going to sleep at my place. I do not know her for too long, but I get along with her pretty well. She probably is attracted to me A BIT, but the problem is that she has a bf, who is not coming to my town, though, so he is far away.

The girl should be fairly easy, but she is not a slvt. I guess that when I would start some harder kino or even making out, she would be like "Sorry, but we have to stop - I have a bf blabla". What would a DJ say to encourage her make out or have sex, since her bf is real far away and is not going to find out anyway!?

Any suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You could try Mystery's freezeout method. It worked for me!

I f-closed this LJBF chick I had known for 6 years at her ex-boyfriends place while he was out of the country.

Let me know if you need more info about the freezeout method. It is as effective as hell!
 

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Thank you for the reply. Some info would be nice, indeed. I searched "freezeout", but I do not think I find anything good.
 

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Basically....

The Freeze Out. This is Mystery's classic LMR tactic. If a girl stops you at a certain point as you are moving toward sex, and it is not simply token resistence, you STOP. Completely. Stop.

Say, "I understand." And go do something else. It is imperative not to come off as pouting. Rather, you're just communicating, "If you don't want to do this, that's cool."

But really, this is a punishment for her since she is aroused. You're saying, you don't get the reward of me arousing you unless you're willing to take this all the way.

Anyway, stop, go do something else (check your email, watch tv), then return, maybe touch her leg, and things will resume.

Then tell her to do the thing she wouldn't do before. She may go a little further then resist.

Then just follow the same process. Until she pounces on you with frustration. Continue as usual.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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