"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When talking to a hot girl, make her insecure about her looks or clothes by talking about how great some other girls are, and how e.g. her clothes are alright but could be better.

Once she feels insecure about them, out of the blue give her a compliment on them. I just had a girl do this to me and its very powerfull!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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isn't this just neg-hitting?
 
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Originally posted by superman2k6
isn't this just neg-hitting?
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no, not at all, neg hitting is basicly a false compliment or an 'accidental insult'

"thats a nice top your wearing iv seen 3 other girls come in wearing that"

What i am saying is that by using jelousy you create an insecurity for the girl. You tell her how good looking her freind and that she herself looks average.

By doing this you make the girl search for aproval, you basicly have her trying to validate herself for you! Once you validate her, you are in a position of power.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When talking to a hot girl, make her insecure about her looks or clothes by talking about how great some other girls are, and how e.g. her clothes are alright but could be better.
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This isn't an accidental insult? I think it is.

You tell her how good looking her freind and that she herself looks average.
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Sorry man, but thats a neg and a bad one too - its way too obvious and if shes a HB9 and her friends a HB4 then its gonna look so false.
 
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The reason the first example looks like a new is because it is! Thats an example of a new so you stop getting it mixed up with what im saying!

Telling her that her freind looks real cute and holding back form complimenting on her looks, is by no means a neg.
 
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Originally posted by silverwex
This isn't an accidental insult? I think it is.



Sorry man, but thats a neg and a bad one too - its way too obvious and if shes a HB9 and her friends a HB4 then its gonna look so false.
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Use you head a bit! You are not going to tell her that HB4 is fit, but if theres a HB6 or 7 then you could and then act as if the girl your gaming is not attractive at all.

She is used to guys thinking she is hot and her freind is normal, but now you seem to be blind to her looks, this will make her try and validate her self.
 
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Use you head a bit! You are not going to tell her that HB4 is fit, but if theres a HB6 or 7 then you could and then act as if the girl your gaming is not attractive at all.
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But you said earlier that you compliment her friend on her looks... her friend could be a HB4!!! Proof:

What i am saying is that by using jelousy you create an insecurity for the girl. You tell her how good looking her freind and that she herself looks average.
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I dunno man, you're mixing me up here and NO im not thick. I just think this tip isnt anything original.

Peace.
 
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:down: Bad Tip, girls that are 5 and below. NEVER ever neg-hit them or even compliment them. They already got their b1tch shields to the max and they assume everything you say about them is negative from the start even though it may be neutral or truly positive. Don't even compliment that they're smart, that they have an interesting hair style, or anything good about them. I'm not saying don't praise them, but don't do it intially especially if you're not good friends with them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Warlord
:down: Bad Tip, girls that are 5 and below. NEVER ever neg-hit them or even compliment them. They already got their b1tch shields to the max and they assume everything you say about them is negative from the start even though it may be neutral or truly positive. Don't even compliment that they're smart, that they have an interesting hair style, or anything good about them. I'm not saying don't praise them, but don't do it intially especially if you're not good friends with them.
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firstly, what you just said is complete crap, i know some ugly girls that are extremly positive and optimistic.

Secondly, please point out where i mentioned neging or complimenting girls that are hb5 or below.
 
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