"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When talking to a hot girl, make her insecure about her looks or clothes by talking about how great some other girls are, and how e.g. her clothes are alright but could be better.

Once she feels insecure about them, out of the blue give her a compliment on them. I just had a girl do this to me and its very powerfull!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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isn't this just neg-hitting?
 
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Originally posted by superman2k6
isn't this just neg-hitting?
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no, not at all, neg hitting is basicly a false compliment or an 'accidental insult'

"thats a nice top your wearing iv seen 3 other girls come in wearing that"

What i am saying is that by using jelousy you create an insecurity for the girl. You tell her how good looking her freind and that she herself looks average.

By doing this you make the girl search for aproval, you basicly have her trying to validate herself for you! Once you validate her, you are in a position of power.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When talking to a hot girl, make her insecure about her looks or clothes by talking about how great some other girls are, and how e.g. her clothes are alright but could be better.
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This isn't an accidental insult? I think it is.

You tell her how good looking her freind and that she herself looks average.
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Sorry man, but thats a neg and a bad one too - its way too obvious and if shes a HB9 and her friends a HB4 then its gonna look so false.
 
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The reason the first example looks like a new is because it is! Thats an example of a new so you stop getting it mixed up with what im saying!

Telling her that her freind looks real cute and holding back form complimenting on her looks, is by no means a neg.
 
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Originally posted by silverwex
This isn't an accidental insult? I think it is.



Sorry man, but thats a neg and a bad one too - its way too obvious and if shes a HB9 and her friends a HB4 then its gonna look so false.
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Use you head a bit! You are not going to tell her that HB4 is fit, but if theres a HB6 or 7 then you could and then act as if the girl your gaming is not attractive at all.

She is used to guys thinking she is hot and her freind is normal, but now you seem to be blind to her looks, this will make her try and validate her self.
 
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Use you head a bit! You are not going to tell her that HB4 is fit, but if theres a HB6 or 7 then you could and then act as if the girl your gaming is not attractive at all.
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But you said earlier that you compliment her friend on her looks... her friend could be a HB4!!! Proof:

What i am saying is that by using jelousy you create an insecurity for the girl. You tell her how good looking her freind and that she herself looks average.
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I dunno man, you're mixing me up here and NO im not thick. I just think this tip isnt anything original.

Peace.
 
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:down: Bad Tip, girls that are 5 and below. NEVER ever neg-hit them or even compliment them. They already got their b1tch shields to the max and they assume everything you say about them is negative from the start even though it may be neutral or truly positive. Don't even compliment that they're smart, that they have an interesting hair style, or anything good about them. I'm not saying don't praise them, but don't do it intially especially if you're not good friends with them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Warlord
:down: Bad Tip, girls that are 5 and below. NEVER ever neg-hit them or even compliment them. They already got their b1tch shields to the max and they assume everything you say about them is negative from the start even though it may be neutral or truly positive. Don't even compliment that they're smart, that they have an interesting hair style, or anything good about them. I'm not saying don't praise them, but don't do it intially especially if you're not good friends with them.
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firstly, what you just said is complete crap, i know some ugly girls that are extremly positive and optimistic.

Secondly, please point out where i mentioned neging or complimenting girls that are hb5 or below.
 
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