"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When talking to a hot girl, make her insecure about her looks or clothes by talking about how great some other girls are, and how e.g. her clothes are alright but could be better.

Once she feels insecure about them, out of the blue give her a compliment on them. I just had a girl do this to me and its very powerfull!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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isn't this just neg-hitting?
 

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Originally posted by superman2k6
isn't this just neg-hitting?
no, not at all, neg hitting is basicly a false compliment or an 'accidental insult'

"thats a nice top your wearing iv seen 3 other girls come in wearing that"

What i am saying is that by using jelousy you create an insecurity for the girl. You tell her how good looking her freind and that she herself looks average.

By doing this you make the girl search for aproval, you basicly have her trying to validate herself for you! Once you validate her, you are in a position of power.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When talking to a hot girl, make her insecure about her looks or clothes by talking about how great some other girls are, and how e.g. her clothes are alright but could be better.
This isn't an accidental insult? I think it is.

You tell her how good looking her freind and that she herself looks average.
Sorry man, but thats a neg and a bad one too - its way too obvious and if shes a HB9 and her friends a HB4 then its gonna look so false.
 

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The reason the first example looks like a new is because it is! Thats an example of a new so you stop getting it mixed up with what im saying!

Telling her that her freind looks real cute and holding back form complimenting on her looks, is by no means a neg.
 

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Originally posted by silverwex
This isn't an accidental insult? I think it is.



Sorry man, but thats a neg and a bad one too - its way too obvious and if shes a HB9 and her friends a HB4 then its gonna look so false.

Use you head a bit! You are not going to tell her that HB4 is fit, but if theres a HB6 or 7 then you could and then act as if the girl your gaming is not attractive at all.

She is used to guys thinking she is hot and her freind is normal, but now you seem to be blind to her looks, this will make her try and validate her self.
 

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Use you head a bit! You are not going to tell her that HB4 is fit, but if theres a HB6 or 7 then you could and then act as if the girl your gaming is not attractive at all.
But you said earlier that you compliment her friend on her looks... her friend could be a HB4!!! Proof:

What i am saying is that by using jelousy you create an insecurity for the girl. You tell her how good looking her freind and that she herself looks average.
I dunno man, you're mixing me up here and NO im not thick. I just think this tip isnt anything original.

Peace.
 

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:down: Bad Tip, girls that are 5 and below. NEVER ever neg-hit them or even compliment them. They already got their b1tch shields to the max and they assume everything you say about them is negative from the start even though it may be neutral or truly positive. Don't even compliment that they're smart, that they have an interesting hair style, or anything good about them. I'm not saying don't praise them, but don't do it intially especially if you're not good friends with them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Warlord
:down: Bad Tip, girls that are 5 and below. NEVER ever neg-hit them or even compliment them. They already got their b1tch shields to the max and they assume everything you say about them is negative from the start even though it may be neutral or truly positive. Don't even compliment that they're smart, that they have an interesting hair style, or anything good about them. I'm not saying don't praise them, but don't do it intially especially if you're not good friends with them.
firstly, what you just said is complete crap, i know some ugly girls that are extremly positive and optimistic.

Secondly, please point out where i mentioned neging or complimenting girls that are hb5 or below.
 
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