"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi guys, first time poster - I think this community is awesome and the best thing so far ive seen here is that there are others like me too. I always thought if my dates don't go well, then something is wrong about me (well possible, but at least im not at 100% fault, lol).

This might sound like a trivial post, but please be nice! Anyway - this chick ive gone out on 1 date with (we made out). I went to see my family over holidays and now re-initiating contact w/her. Today we had 4-5 light/slightly funny text message exchanges and now i want to close it and ask her out for 2nd date. But i want to do it on a "high" not just abrupt asking. I am not a fan of texting, but she doesn't pick up the phone when i call...

her last message: "my nye was good -- went to wall street (for party, not for protesters, just so we are clear)"
what's a funny response? i was thinking of teasing by saying "does party mean you threw up your arms after one ****tail and turned in early, just like when we met? ;)" and then based on her response, invite her to ****tails for our next date.

any thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"stop trying to impress her..."

Hi window - I am actually trying the other way around. Trying to tease her and create doubt in her mind so she tries to impress me instead...

anyone have suggestions?
 
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