"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi guys, first time poster - I think this community is awesome and the best thing so far ive seen here is that there are others like me too. I always thought if my dates don't go well, then something is wrong about me (well possible, but at least im not at 100% fault, lol).

This might sound like a trivial post, but please be nice! Anyway - this chick ive gone out on 1 date with (we made out). I went to see my family over holidays and now re-initiating contact w/her. Today we had 4-5 light/slightly funny text message exchanges and now i want to close it and ask her out for 2nd date. But i want to do it on a "high" not just abrupt asking. I am not a fan of texting, but she doesn't pick up the phone when i call...

her last message: "my nye was good -- went to wall street (for party, not for protesters, just so we are clear)"
what's a funny response? i was thinking of teasing by saying "does party mean you threw up your arms after one ****tail and turned in early, just like when we met? ;)" and then based on her response, invite her to ****tails for our next date.

any thoughts?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"stop trying to impress her..."

Hi window - I am actually trying the other way around. Trying to tease her and create doubt in her mind so she tries to impress me instead...

anyone have suggestions?
 
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