"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hi guys, first time poster - I think this community is awesome and the best thing so far ive seen here is that there are others like me too. I always thought if my dates don't go well, then something is wrong about me (well possible, but at least im not at 100% fault, lol).

This might sound like a trivial post, but please be nice! Anyway - this chick ive gone out on 1 date with (we made out). I went to see my family over holidays and now re-initiating contact w/her. Today we had 4-5 light/slightly funny text message exchanges and now i want to close it and ask her out for 2nd date. But i want to do it on a "high" not just abrupt asking. I am not a fan of texting, but she doesn't pick up the phone when i call...

her last message: "my nye was good -- went to wall street (for party, not for protesters, just so we are clear)"
what's a funny response? i was thinking of teasing by saying "does party mean you threw up your arms after one ****tail and turned in early, just like when we met? ;)" and then based on her response, invite her to ****tails for our next date.

any thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"stop trying to impress her..."

Hi window - I am actually trying the other way around. Trying to tease her and create doubt in her mind so she tries to impress me instead...

anyone have suggestions?
 
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