"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A good compliment.

wildchild

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I have been seeing a few girls recently and I found one I kinda like, well infact I like a few of them I seem to find something I like about nearly every women I meet. Alot of 'Don Juans' dont like giving girls compliments but I found this one to work wonders and they will always remember you saying it. When you are walking or driving stop what you are doing and lean over and give your lady a kiss, if she says what was that for say "Just for being you" and carry on as if nothing happened. Remember not to over do it with this kinda thing or you will look like an ass kissing afc but i feel the odd compliment can work wonders, especially if it comes from the heart like that one did.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Skilla_Staz

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It doesnt matter what kind of compliment it is, when they are used in rare situations, a girl is always flattered and feels almost euphoric. Freshman year, I told this girl that her outfit that day was incredibly elegant, and she IMed me later that night telling me that she was smiling the whole day because of what I told her.

Another example, this girl I work with, knows that I don't give compliments often. She came into work with her hair all did up. I told her it looked cute, and she blushed big time.
 

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Skilla does what i was talking about on another thread. Pick something out that you know the girl wants to be noticed for but no-one says anything about it to her often.

You're getting this advice free ..what a shame.
 

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Yea exactly guys! I think a compliment means so much more to a person if you dont give them alot. If you possess something rare you always put a higher price on it.
 

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Exactly. If you get head every night, its not quite as fun as if you get it once a week.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yop.

The unique compliment def. goes a long way.
Whenever I compliment a chick, I always note something random.

Odds are, 'its' never been complimented... thus the new and freshly unlimited value.
 
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