I have been seeing a few girls recently and I found one I kinda like, well infact I like a few of them I seem to find something I like about nearly every women I meet. Alot of 'Don Juans' dont like giving girls compliments but I found this one to work wonders and they will always remember you saying it. When you are walking or driving stop what you are doing and lean over and give your lady a kiss, if she says what was that for say "Just for being you" and carry on as if nothing happened. Remember not to over do it with this kinda thing or you will look like an ass kissing afc but i feel the odd compliment can work wonders, especially if it comes from the heart like that one did.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A good compliment.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
It doesnt matter what kind of compliment it is, when they are used in rare situations, a girl is always flattered and feels almost euphoric. Freshman year, I told this girl that her outfit that day was incredibly elegant, and she IMed me later that night telling me that she was smiling the whole day because of what I told her.
Another example, this girl I work with, knows that I don't give compliments often. She came into work with her hair all did up. I told her it looked cute, and she blushed big time.
Another example, this girl I work with, knows that I don't give compliments often. She came into work with her hair all did up. I told her it looked cute, and she blushed big time.
tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
Skilla does what i was talking about on another thread. Pick something out that you know the girl wants to be noticed for but no-one says anything about it to her often.
You're getting this advice free ..what a shame.
You're getting this advice free ..what a shame.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Exactly. If you get head every night, its not quite as fun as if you get it once a week.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
I'd still rather get it every night.Skilla_Staz said:Exactly. If you get head every night, its not quite as fun as if you get it once a week.
jackie_legs
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thats only good if you have a g/f.
jackie_legs said:thats only good if you have a g/f.
Now you tell me! I wondered why I kept getting slapped on the train.