I have been seeing a few girls recently and I found one I kinda like, well infact I like a few of them I seem to find something I like about nearly every women I meet. Alot of 'Don Juans' dont like giving girls compliments but I found this one to work wonders and they will always remember you saying it. When you are walking or driving stop what you are doing and lean over and give your lady a kiss, if she says what was that for say "Just for being you" and carry on as if nothing happened. Remember not to over do it with this kinda thing or you will look like an ass kissing afc but i feel the odd compliment can work wonders, especially if it comes from the heart like that one did.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
A good compliment.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
It doesnt matter what kind of compliment it is, when they are used in rare situations, a girl is always flattered and feels almost euphoric. Freshman year, I told this girl that her outfit that day was incredibly elegant, and she IMed me later that night telling me that she was smiling the whole day because of what I told her.
Another example, this girl I work with, knows that I don't give compliments often. She came into work with her hair all did up. I told her it looked cute, and she blushed big time.
Another example, this girl I work with, knows that I don't give compliments often. She came into work with her hair all did up. I told her it looked cute, and she blushed big time.
tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
Skilla does what i was talking about on another thread. Pick something out that you know the girl wants to be noticed for but no-one says anything about it to her often.
You're getting this advice free ..what a shame.
You're getting this advice free ..what a shame.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Exactly. If you get head every night, its not quite as fun as if you get it once a week.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
I'd still rather get it every night.Skilla_Staz said:Exactly. If you get head every night, its not quite as fun as if you get it once a week.
jackie_legs
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thats only good if you have a g/f.
jackie_legs said:thats only good if you have a g/f.
Now you tell me! I wondered why I kept getting slapped on the train.