I have been seeing a few girls recently and I found one I kinda like, well infact I like a few of them I seem to find something I like about nearly every women I meet. Alot of 'Don Juans' dont like giving girls compliments but I found this one to work wonders and they will always remember you saying it. When you are walking or driving stop what you are doing and lean over and give your lady a kiss, if she says what was that for say "Just for being you" and carry on as if nothing happened. Remember not to over do it with this kinda thing or you will look like an ass kissing afc but i feel the odd compliment can work wonders, especially if it comes from the heart like that one did.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A good compliment.
- Thread starter wildchild
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
It doesnt matter what kind of compliment it is, when they are used in rare situations, a girl is always flattered and feels almost euphoric. Freshman year, I told this girl that her outfit that day was incredibly elegant, and she IMed me later that night telling me that she was smiling the whole day because of what I told her.
Another example, this girl I work with, knows that I don't give compliments often. She came into work with her hair all did up. I told her it looked cute, and she blushed big time.
Another example, this girl I work with, knows that I don't give compliments often. She came into work with her hair all did up. I told her it looked cute, and she blushed big time.
tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
Skilla does what i was talking about on another thread. Pick something out that you know the girl wants to be noticed for but no-one says anything about it to her often.
You're getting this advice free ..what a shame.
You're getting this advice free ..what a shame.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Exactly. If you get head every night, its not quite as fun as if you get it once a week.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
I'd still rather get it every night.Skilla_Staz said:Exactly. If you get head every night, its not quite as fun as if you get it once a week.
jackie_legs
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thats only good if you have a g/f.
jackie_legs said:thats only good if you have a g/f.
Now you tell me! I wondered why I kept getting slapped on the train.