"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A Good 3 Day Workout Routine...

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I am by no means an experienced lifter, but I do have a lot of knowledge and about 4 months experience in the field of weight lifting. This is my current routine for the last 4 weeks of an 8 week cycle. I’m trying to pump it up for the latter part (summer is coming, dammit)…. Time to get it right.

DAY 1: Chest + Tri’s

Chest

Standard Bench
Incline Bench
Cable Crossovers
Peck Deck Fly’s

Triceps

Pressdowns
Close Grip Bench Press
Skullcrushers


DAY 2: Shoulders + Biceps

Shoulders

Military Press
Arnold Press
Side Lat Raises
Upright Rows
Shrugs

Biceps

Hammer Curls
Preacher Curls
Concentration Curls


DAY 3: Back + Legs

Back

Lat Pulldowns
Seated Rows
Deadlifts
Pull ups

Legs

Squats (Duh!)
Leg Extensions
Leg Press
Reverse Extensions


DAYS 1 + 3: ABS

Cable Crunches
Side Bends
Leg Raises


I am 5'11 and 162 lbs. I am also a model & basketball player so I am going for more of a defined physique than a mass giant one, just to give you an idea.

Read my other articles in the forum for information on supplements and basic workout information.

Peace.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Legs and back in the same workout? You are more than a man than me if you can train both those bodyparts hard in the same workout! Deadlifts are always first for me in a back workout.

I also like to split hams and quads as hams deserve focusing on seperately.

Too many shoulder movements IMHO - military press and Arnold do the same thing, alternate them each workout. I include traps with the rest of my back and i include rear delts with back too.
 

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You know what.... you're probably right. I'm gonna try switching them and do Back & Shoulders one day and Legs & Biceps the other and see how that works out. I was planning on alternating the military and arnold presses, and was just puting down all the excersizes I was going to be doing this cycle.
 

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Yeah, you can't beat legs (quads) with biceps as the growth mechanisms stimulated with hard quad training really seem to have a knock on effect to the biceps.

I like to do shoulders (front and side delts) with hams and like I said, back and rear delts together - works for me!
 

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shoulders with back?

WTF, try this split instead:

Mon: chest and tri

wed: back and bi

fri: legs and shoulders

plus, you got too many shoulder exercises. and you're hardly working your hamstrings.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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