"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A Good 3 Day Workout Routine...

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I am by no means an experienced lifter, but I do have a lot of knowledge and about 4 months experience in the field of weight lifting. This is my current routine for the last 4 weeks of an 8 week cycle. I’m trying to pump it up for the latter part (summer is coming, dammit)…. Time to get it right.

DAY 1: Chest + Tri’s

Chest

Standard Bench
Incline Bench
Cable Crossovers
Peck Deck Fly’s

Triceps

Pressdowns
Close Grip Bench Press
Skullcrushers


DAY 2: Shoulders + Biceps

Shoulders

Military Press
Arnold Press
Side Lat Raises
Upright Rows
Shrugs

Biceps

Hammer Curls
Preacher Curls
Concentration Curls


DAY 3: Back + Legs

Back

Lat Pulldowns
Seated Rows
Deadlifts
Pull ups

Legs

Squats (Duh!)
Leg Extensions
Leg Press
Reverse Extensions


DAYS 1 + 3: ABS

Cable Crunches
Side Bends
Leg Raises


I am 5'11 and 162 lbs. I am also a model & basketball player so I am going for more of a defined physique than a mass giant one, just to give you an idea.

Read my other articles in the forum for information on supplements and basic workout information.

Peace.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Legs and back in the same workout? You are more than a man than me if you can train both those bodyparts hard in the same workout! Deadlifts are always first for me in a back workout.

I also like to split hams and quads as hams deserve focusing on seperately.

Too many shoulder movements IMHO - military press and Arnold do the same thing, alternate them each workout. I include traps with the rest of my back and i include rear delts with back too.
 

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You know what.... you're probably right. I'm gonna try switching them and do Back & Shoulders one day and Legs & Biceps the other and see how that works out. I was planning on alternating the military and arnold presses, and was just puting down all the excersizes I was going to be doing this cycle.
 

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Yeah, you can't beat legs (quads) with biceps as the growth mechanisms stimulated with hard quad training really seem to have a knock on effect to the biceps.

I like to do shoulders (front and side delts) with hams and like I said, back and rear delts together - works for me!
 

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shoulders with back?

WTF, try this split instead:

Mon: chest and tri

wed: back and bi

fri: legs and shoulders

plus, you got too many shoulder exercises. and you're hardly working your hamstrings.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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