"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A girl who wants me works with HB9: how to get it? (Delicate situation)

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izza

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All right, to catch you up from last time. I went on a few dates with this one girl. It went pretty well, but basically she's about to get friend-zoneded. Fair's fair.

Problem is, she introduced me to her friend who is cute and I saw her eyeing me. Fair's fair.

They work together. I'm trying to think of a way to get the HB's phone number. That's sticky. I could just drop by there, it's a Second Cup cafe, and I hate coffee, so I would have no normal business there. But women are a bit slow around here, I could just drop by at a random hour and strike up a conversation.

Also, I could ask this girl who I went on a few dates with. That would be kinda ugly. Shoot, I still need to friendzone her.

This sucks. I don't think date-girl has HB's phone number. Ok that means the only way to do this is to drop by. DAMN this is why I should get that phone number the first time!

Any other way?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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grow a pair and stop by to talk to the friend. I wouldn't use the girl you've been dating to get to the other girl... just be a man and do it yourself.
 
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I don't see anything that is possibly confusing the situation.

You're single, she's hot, approach her like anyone else.

She's a girl, you're a guy. Talk to her.
 
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Right. The problem: I know where she works but not when. It's not quite on my way.

I would approach her but I don't know where she is. The girl does.
 
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