Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

A girl who wants me works with HB9: how to get it? (Delicate situation)

izza

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2004
Messages
989
Reaction score
16
Location
Midwest USA
All right, to catch you up from last time. I went on a few dates with this one girl. It went pretty well, but basically she's about to get friend-zoneded. Fair's fair.

Problem is, she introduced me to her friend who is cute and I saw her eyeing me. Fair's fair.

They work together. I'm trying to think of a way to get the HB's phone number. That's sticky. I could just drop by there, it's a Second Cup cafe, and I hate coffee, so I would have no normal business there. But women are a bit slow around here, I could just drop by at a random hour and strike up a conversation.

Also, I could ask this girl who I went on a few dates with. That would be kinda ugly. Shoot, I still need to friendzone her.

This sucks. I don't think date-girl has HB's phone number. Ok that means the only way to do this is to drop by. DAMN this is why I should get that phone number the first time!

Any other way?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

jack knife

Don Juan
Joined
May 24, 2006
Messages
128
Reaction score
1
grow a pair and stop by to talk to the friend. I wouldn't use the girl you've been dating to get to the other girl... just be a man and do it yourself.
 

KillaCam

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 26, 2005
Messages
770
Reaction score
3
I don't see anything that is possibly confusing the situation.

You're single, she's hot, approach her like anyone else.

She's a girl, you're a guy. Talk to her.
 

izza

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2004
Messages
989
Reaction score
16
Location
Midwest USA
Right. The problem: I know where she works but not when. It's not quite on my way.

I would approach her but I don't know where she is. The girl does.
 
Top