"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A girl who wants me works with HB9: how to get it? (Delicate situation)

izza

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All right, to catch you up from last time. I went on a few dates with this one girl. It went pretty well, but basically she's about to get friend-zoneded. Fair's fair.

Problem is, she introduced me to her friend who is cute and I saw her eyeing me. Fair's fair.

They work together. I'm trying to think of a way to get the HB's phone number. That's sticky. I could just drop by there, it's a Second Cup cafe, and I hate coffee, so I would have no normal business there. But women are a bit slow around here, I could just drop by at a random hour and strike up a conversation.

Also, I could ask this girl who I went on a few dates with. That would be kinda ugly. Shoot, I still need to friendzone her.

This sucks. I don't think date-girl has HB's phone number. Ok that means the only way to do this is to drop by. DAMN this is why I should get that phone number the first time!

Any other way?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jack knife

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grow a pair and stop by to talk to the friend. I wouldn't use the girl you've been dating to get to the other girl... just be a man and do it yourself.
 

KillaCam

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I don't see anything that is possibly confusing the situation.

You're single, she's hot, approach her like anyone else.

She's a girl, you're a guy. Talk to her.
 

izza

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Right. The problem: I know where she works but not when. It's not quite on my way.

I would approach her but I don't know where she is. The girl does.
 
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