"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A girl tries to pick me up but shes not attractive

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Tai

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Today a girl in class pick me up by passing me a note asking if i got a girlfriend, i reply back "no i dont" then she wrote "it would be ok to you give my # then" so i wrote "ok, write it here"

While flatter that a girl pick me up, the problem is she is overweight and i dont really feel any attraction toward her but but i gave her the "OK" for her to give me her number. I could have lied that i got a girl but i dint.

I could not call her or talk to her but she is in every of my class and she will ask why i don't call, obviously i will make some excuse but sooner or later she'll know am not intrested.

The real problem is this tho, how can i deal with this without being really akward since we see each other in class everyday. I could use her for sex to break my virginity but i know i wont get much pleasure out of that. I just wanna know what it feels like tho...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You're not a woman. You don't have to have the best babe to brake your virginity. If she's ok with sex, go ahead and enjoy yourself. Stop jacking off. This will give you experience so when you do get that hot babe and you **** her you don't have to look like an amatuer.
 
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Woh woh woh, its one thing to break your virginity with any old girl, its another thing to use her for that purpose.

Make 100% sure that she knows its just sex no strings attached. Otherwise you risk using her in the worst way possible, and even apart from her feelings and self-confidence and so on, that is one rep that you definitely don't want following you around school.


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you could use this opportunity to your advantage, put her in the LJBF zone.

she'll want you more plus tell all her hot gf's about you. girls will always have a circle of gf's, so you can even meet them through her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how very wrong.

no fat chicks!
 
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you can LJBF your way out of this, but itd take a lot of wheelin and dealin to work your way to her hot friends...you'd have to be with her a lot for you to even see her friends, doesnt sound like something you want to do.

also, def dont waste your virginity on that...
 
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LOL fat chicks are human beings too!
nothing wrong with having them as friends

i see tons of ppl having fat chicks as friends...but im not one of them anyway..i have my reasons
 
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Originally posted by ScrewIt
LOL fat chicks are human beings too!
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Can I see your data?:p
 
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Not being attracted to her gives you an advantage. You could do her and let her know you are not interested in a relationship. Don't tell her beforehand, because she will probably decline and all of her friends will know you were willing to **** her and she turned you down, and she is not even attractive so that is not at all a good thing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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