"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A girl tries to pick me up but shes not attractive

Tai

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Today a girl in class pick me up by passing me a note asking if i got a girlfriend, i reply back "no i dont" then she wrote "it would be ok to you give my # then" so i wrote "ok, write it here"

While flatter that a girl pick me up, the problem is she is overweight and i dont really feel any attraction toward her but but i gave her the "OK" for her to give me her number. I could have lied that i got a girl but i dint.

I could not call her or talk to her but she is in every of my class and she will ask why i don't call, obviously i will make some excuse but sooner or later she'll know am not intrested.

The real problem is this tho, how can i deal with this without being really akward since we see each other in class everyday. I could use her for sex to break my virginity but i know i wont get much pleasure out of that. I just wanna know what it feels like tho...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ebach

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You're not a woman. You don't have to have the best babe to brake your virginity. If she's ok with sex, go ahead and enjoy yourself. Stop jacking off. This will give you experience so when you do get that hot babe and you **** her you don't have to look like an amatuer.
 

[look]aRhino

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Woh woh woh, its one thing to break your virginity with any old girl, its another thing to use her for that purpose.

Make 100% sure that she knows its just sex no strings attached. Otherwise you risk using her in the worst way possible, and even apart from her feelings and self-confidence and so on, that is one rep that you definitely don't want following you around school.


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ScrewIt

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you could use this opportunity to your advantage, put her in the LJBF zone.

she'll want you more plus tell all her hot gf's about you. girls will always have a circle of gf's, so you can even meet them through her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tails

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how very wrong.

no fat chicks!
 

manicmaximum

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you can LJBF your way out of this, but itd take a lot of wheelin and dealin to work your way to her hot friends...you'd have to be with her a lot for you to even see her friends, doesnt sound like something you want to do.

also, def dont waste your virginity on that...
 

ScrewIt

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LOL fat chicks are human beings too!
nothing wrong with having them as friends

i see tons of ppl having fat chicks as friends...but im not one of them anyway..i have my reasons
 

AMF

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
LOL fat chicks are human beings too!
Can I see your data?:p
 

donjan

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Not being attracted to her gives you an advantage. You could do her and let her know you are not interested in a relationship. Don't tell her beforehand, because she will probably decline and all of her friends will know you were willing to **** her and she turned you down, and she is not even attractive so that is not at all a good thing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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