"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A girl is using a WINGMAN on me

PiMpIn GuY

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Hey sup guys...

So yeah this isnt really happening to me but...lets im jus gonna say its me so its easier to explain

so my girlfriend is talkin to me on msn, and she tells me that shes gonna tell her "friend" to add me on msn. Thats her wingman.

The thing is that i have the feeling that this other person is not really her friend, but its herself. Do any of you know how i can test the "friend" to see if shes really my girlfriends friend or if its really jus herself. Also the other girl doesnt go to my school and i dun known her so i dont really know anything bout her

thx for the help

[any little help, suggestion is appreciated]
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SamePendo

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Ask her out, make out with her, tap that ass.


And.. to answer your question, do you really want to know.. or would you rather do at least one of the abouve?
 

Sexy_Malibu

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Um. This is weird. Must be a high school thing?

I guess the only advice I could offer is to use common sense...

Either this "friend" is your girlfriend or she's your girlfriend's friend.... so either way you treat "her" the same.

Assume that whatever you say to her will either get back to your girlfriend or is going directly to your girlfriend. Don't message her or anything at all actually, but if she says something to YOU you can at least be polite but not "friendly". (That is if she says "hey what's up?" you can say "Hello. Sorry I can't talk I'm kind of busy"). Don't be rude because if it IS a real friend, she'll call you a ****. But don't be overly friendly because if it's actually your girlfriend then she might get jealous/suspicious.

I don't quite understand what would make you suspect that it's your girlfriend... but I guess I don't understand why your girlfriend would want you to add her "wingman" either.

It's all very 'high school', but you're 15 so I guess that's ok. ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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