"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A girl is using a WINGMAN on me

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PiMpIn GuY

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Hey sup guys...

So yeah this isnt really happening to me but...lets im jus gonna say its me so its easier to explain

so my girlfriend is talkin to me on msn, and she tells me that shes gonna tell her "friend" to add me on msn. Thats her wingman.

The thing is that i have the feeling that this other person is not really her friend, but its herself. Do any of you know how i can test the "friend" to see if shes really my girlfriends friend or if its really jus herself. Also the other girl doesnt go to my school and i dun known her so i dont really know anything bout her

thx for the help

[any little help, suggestion is appreciated]
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ask her out, make out with her, tap that ass.


And.. to answer your question, do you really want to know.. or would you rather do at least one of the abouve?
 
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Sexy_Malibu

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Um. This is weird. Must be a high school thing?

I guess the only advice I could offer is to use common sense...

Either this "friend" is your girlfriend or she's your girlfriend's friend.... so either way you treat "her" the same.

Assume that whatever you say to her will either get back to your girlfriend or is going directly to your girlfriend. Don't message her or anything at all actually, but if she says something to YOU you can at least be polite but not "friendly". (That is if she says "hey what's up?" you can say "Hello. Sorry I can't talk I'm kind of busy"). Don't be rude because if it IS a real friend, she'll call you a ****. But don't be overly friendly because if it's actually your girlfriend then she might get jealous/suspicious.

I don't quite understand what would make you suspect that it's your girlfriend... but I guess I don't understand why your girlfriend would want you to add her "wingman" either.

It's all very 'high school', but you're 15 so I guess that's ok. ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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