"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A girl here, any questions?

ValleyDJing

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AnnaBee said:
Sooo, I heard from a friend of mine who said she used to come to this sight to help you guys out with your female issues and questions. So I thought I'd give it a go as well, if anyone is interested. Soo, any questions? Anything's fare game :)
~AnnaBee
Show us your titties!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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wutangfinancial said:
In a hypothetical scenario, would you go out with me?
I would. :)

I think you are cute. However I can imagine your attitude and lack of charm would be a turn off.

Post ur pic again, and the other girlies will tell you what THEY think.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lmao burned by the lady. maybe it's good to have a couple around for some reinforcement.
 

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what is don't understand is that this forum clearly preaches not to 'listen' to what a woman says, but rather judge her by her actions. Also, it preaches women say something but actually mean something else. Now, after all of this I am dumbfounded to find so many guys flocking to a thread just because some 'chick' wants to answer questions!!!

Am I missing something?
Face it guys, this woman is another woman altogether when she is in a relationship!

Can someone explain??

Annabee, I hope you know none of these guys are taking you seriously!!! Can't you see... some of the silly questions they ask you..?? No wonder you women are so gullible!! They are just amused by a female poster, thats all!!
Why do you go and get busy with your myspace profile. Go on! Unless I am the only stupid one here, who is 'seriously' giving you advice, when all the guys are prolly laughing their asses of!!:p
 

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Randallpink83 said:
even more girls starting their own therapy threads???

Are we gonna have to start a Heman Woman Haters Club? :trouble: :whistle:
Something like NO MA'AM (National Organization of Men Against Amazonian Masterhood)?

Every now and then a womans input is needed. I don't think there is anything wrong with taking a womans advice as long as the advice is sound.

Here are some question for the ladies. These questions are focused on first date or early conversations.

How do you know that a man wants to get sexual with you?
What are the first signs you see?
What is the best thing he can do or say that will have you feeling the same way?
 

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Okay AnneBee here is your qualification question?

When i approach a girl and chat with her for 20 mins and then i want to ask her for her number, how should i go about saying it?

A) "You're very beautiful, and i really, really like you, do you think maybe that i can have your phone #"
B) "What's your home phone number"
c) "Do you ugh think we can get together sometime and maybe ugh hangout or something"

Also,
when i pick her up for our first date, what should i bring? Should i bring flowers? Should i bring her a small gift (ie: a teddy bear) or should i bring nothing at all?

Plus, we want a pic.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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iqqi said:
That's blasphemy.
Can u please not use big words with more then 3 syllables ? it hurts my brain when u do that..plus my english is not that good
HOLLA!
 

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AnnaBee said:
Sooo, I heard from a friend of mine who said she used to come to this sight to help you guys out with your female issues and questions. So I thought I'd give it a go as well, if anyone is interested. Soo, any questions? Anything's fare game :)
~AnnaBee
Can u fix me a sandwhich? im kind of hungry
Oh and my laundry to (dont worry bout the skid marks in my undies)
Oh yea and turn the 2pac up on the stereo
Thanks babe :);)
 

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iqqi said:
I'm God. Send your pic to me, I'll tell you whats up.

BTW, I don't use a stupid number scale. What a dumb concept!
Well god's dead and you're very much alive (I hope.)

If you want to exchange pictures than by all means...just ask politely.

Girls love chastising people on manners without watching their own :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Okay I have lots of questions....How much do looks matter initially?....if you made yourself look like an idiot when you were drunk outside a bar, can that be changed in a womans mind?....if a girl is a virgin, is it harder to get her to go out with you?....whats better, compliments on looks or what youre wearing?...
 

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Can u please not use big words with more then 3 syllables ?
Haha, yeah that word (blasphemy) must of really confused you since it’s actually not more then 3 syllables. No big deal though.
 

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wutangfinancial said:
In a hypothetical scenario, would you go out with me?

iqqi said:
I would. :)

I think you are cute. However I can imagine your attitude and lack of charm would be a turn off.

Post ur pic again, and the other girlies will tell you what THEY think.
WuTang I hope you know a man posing as a woman just said you were cute.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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