You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Show us your titties!!!AnnaBee said:Sooo, I heard from a friend of mine who said she used to come to this sight to help you guys out with your female issues and questions. So I thought I'd give it a go as well, if anyone is interested. Soo, any questions? Anything's fare game
~AnnaBee
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
iqqi said:
That's blasphemy.ValleyDJing said:
I would.wutangfinancial said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Something like NO MA'AM (National Organization of Men Against Amazonian Masterhood)?Randallpink83 said:even more girls starting their own therapy threads???
Are we gonna have to start a Heman Woman Haters Club? :trouble:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Can u please not use big words with more then 3 syllables ? it hurts my brain when u do that..plus my english is not that goodiqqi said:
Can u fix me a sandwhich? im kind of hungryAnnaBee said:Sooo, I heard from a friend of mine who said she used to come to this sight to help you guys out with your female issues and questions. So I thought I'd give it a go as well, if anyone is interested. Soo, any questions? Anything's fare game
~AnnaBee
(o)(o)ValleyDJing said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Haha, yeah that word (blasphemy) must of really confused you since it’s actually not more then 3 syllables. No big deal though.
wutangfinancial said:
WuTang I hope you know a man posing as a woman just said you were cute.iqqi said:I would.
I think you are cute. However I can imagine your attitude and lack of charm would be a turn off.
Post ur pic again, and the other girlies will tell you what THEY think.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.