"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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afrojiggles

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am now in new territory and a gal i made a pass on her yester nite on phone inviting her to have drinks at some club soo she says 'u know am way past that stage of clubing and what not as she wants some thing more' soo i presume its not one nite stand but a relationship of which i have to prepare ma self for psychologically but i can still play her if i want tho' i wana keep her soo anya dvice on how to tackle her on sunday?:cheer:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i dont really understand what you are saying.
 

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joekerr31 said:
i dont really understand what you are saying.
what i mean is i asked her out a nite and all she was yappin her juicy lips is that she wants some thing more than just ggoing out for beer and dancing as in teh past it hasnt worked for her. so i wonder if she's justa joker or that she wants someone to have a longterm relationship to make her fel secure and what not as thats what most of these Hb look for, tho she is easy to bait but stays in another town from mine soo she has to commute to where i am...got it now dude!!
 

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First of all, never attach too much value to anything a woman says.

However, this:

she wants some thing more...as in teh past it hasnt worked for her.

means that she feels guilty about her past slvtty behavior. The girl is easy. If you just don't believe her bvllsh!t, things with her will likely play out for you just like it did for the guys before you - sex without commitment.
 

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she is from kenya, where i come from but she's half caste thus insecurity with white gals here dressing in outlandish manner plus the ability to blend into them as they are easy prey.....thus will judge her closely on sunday and see what tricks she has up her girly sleeve of being a slvt....lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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