"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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afrojiggles

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am now in new territory and a gal i made a pass on her yester nite on phone inviting her to have drinks at some club soo she says 'u know am way past that stage of clubing and what not as she wants some thing more' soo i presume its not one nite stand but a relationship of which i have to prepare ma self for psychologically but i can still play her if i want tho' i wana keep her soo anya dvice on how to tackle her on sunday?:cheer:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i dont really understand what you are saying.
 

afrojiggles

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joekerr31 said:
i dont really understand what you are saying.
what i mean is i asked her out a nite and all she was yappin her juicy lips is that she wants some thing more than just ggoing out for beer and dancing as in teh past it hasnt worked for her. so i wonder if she's justa joker or that she wants someone to have a longterm relationship to make her fel secure and what not as thats what most of these Hb look for, tho she is easy to bait but stays in another town from mine soo she has to commute to where i am...got it now dude!!
 

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First of all, never attach too much value to anything a woman says.

However, this:

she wants some thing more...as in teh past it hasnt worked for her.

means that she feels guilty about her past slvtty behavior. The girl is easy. If you just don't believe her bvllsh!t, things with her will likely play out for you just like it did for the guys before you - sex without commitment.
 

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she is from kenya, where i come from but she's half caste thus insecurity with white gals here dressing in outlandish manner plus the ability to blend into them as they are easy prey.....thus will judge her closely on sunday and see what tricks she has up her girly sleeve of being a slvt....lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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