Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
what i mean is i asked her out a nite and all she was yappin her juicy lips is that she wants some thing more than just ggoing out for beer and dancing as in teh past it hasnt worked for her. so i wonder if she's justa joker or that she wants someone to have a longterm relationship to make her fel secure and what not as thats what most of these Hb look for, tho she is easy to bait but stays in another town from mine soo she has to commute to where i am...got it now dude!!joekerr31 said:
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
