"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A g*ddamn question for y'all.

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Ever had the feeling that certain girls start hugging up on other dudes and start expressing more interest in the guys around you, just to like make you jealous? I have this vibe about certain chicks, because I'll be around and these girls hug up and chat up with other dudes around me, yet they tend to ignore me, but when I approach em or talk to them they brighten up and sh*t...I think it's like a way of trying to mask their interest.. Any of y'all ever experience this bullsh*t?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Bishop

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i know what you mean, and I do believe it happens.
 

blienk

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Of course it happens, jealousy is a basic principle of attraction. Why do you think the bible recommends flirting with as many girls as possible?
 

LikRetsam

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I find it immature but whatever. Just don't care and it drives them nuts. They start trying harder and harder till...

Lik
 

DJ Alejandro

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a few girls tried that on me.
i never really cared.
i found out they liked me.
up until now, i still don't dig 'em. hehe
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Luscious

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Yes, it happens.

Girls like this aren't very mature and so plan accordingly:

A more mature girl is a potential LTR.

A very immature girl would be more suited to a one nighter or a booty call.
 

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Although this is also the kind of thing that you do when you are younger, you will talk and flirt with everyone apart from the one you really like. Like the idea behind the love-hate theory that is at its eptiome as you hit puberty.
 

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I think this kind of thing has a lot to do with interest level and their looks. What i mean by that is if they are intersted and are a 7.5 or lower they will cling on to you. (Cling on = bad) And if they are an 8 and up they get their options and test all the guys.

Other than that i think it may have a little to do with the jeasously factor. (or their freinds giving them crappy advice)
 
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