"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A g*ddamn question for y'all.

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Ever had the feeling that certain girls start hugging up on other dudes and start expressing more interest in the guys around you, just to like make you jealous? I have this vibe about certain chicks, because I'll be around and these girls hug up and chat up with other dudes around me, yet they tend to ignore me, but when I approach em or talk to them they brighten up and sh*t...I think it's like a way of trying to mask their interest.. Any of y'all ever experience this bullsh*t?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Bishop

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i know what you mean, and I do believe it happens.
 

blienk

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Of course it happens, jealousy is a basic principle of attraction. Why do you think the bible recommends flirting with as many girls as possible?
 

LikRetsam

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I find it immature but whatever. Just don't care and it drives them nuts. They start trying harder and harder till...

Lik
 

DJ Alejandro

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a few girls tried that on me.
i never really cared.
i found out they liked me.
up until now, i still don't dig 'em. hehe
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Luscious

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Yes, it happens.

Girls like this aren't very mature and so plan accordingly:

A more mature girl is a potential LTR.

A very immature girl would be more suited to a one nighter or a booty call.
 

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Although this is also the kind of thing that you do when you are younger, you will talk and flirt with everyone apart from the one you really like. Like the idea behind the love-hate theory that is at its eptiome as you hit puberty.
 

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I think this kind of thing has a lot to do with interest level and their looks. What i mean by that is if they are intersted and are a 7.5 or lower they will cling on to you. (Cling on = bad) And if they are an 8 and up they get their options and test all the guys.

Other than that i think it may have a little to do with the jeasously factor. (or their freinds giving them crappy advice)
 
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