a friend in need

[blackbelt2k]

hey guys, i haven't posted in a while as things were going good for me. But in the last month, I have regressed. This past week I got too drunk, made many bad descions and made an ass of myself, in my eyes. Now I am filled with regret for doing the stupid things i did, i feel embarassed, and worse; I lost a great deal of the qualities that made me a dj. I just want to shake this feeling and climb back to where I was. My pride is hurt, and even worse, I feel like an ******* for my actions. What can i do to shake this?

 

[Mr.Positive]

I lost a great deal of the qualities that made me a dj. I just want to shake this feeling and climb back to where I was. My pride is hurt, and even worse, I feel like an ******* for my actions. What can i do to shake this?

You don't lose these qualities, you just make mistakes. Do you feel like an ******* because of what you did, or what you feel others think about you? Is you pride hurt because of your ego?

You got to let it all go man. If you want go into more detail, maybe we could help more. But, understand it's normal to make mistakes, but a MAN learns from them. He grows. He knows he fvcked up, he doesn't justify it, or place blame. He learns and becomes a better man.

Are you a blackbelt? If you get into a fight and get knocked down, are you trained to get up and keep fighting? or quit.

 

[blackbelt2k]

Thanks alot. Your right, I made the mistakes, and now I've learned from them. I feel like an @SS both for what I did, and how I think others will think of me now. But I am graduating this week, and leaving for home. Definitely learned a lesson and really can't wait to go, and put this in the past.