"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A flying maroon coloured sausage-cigar shaped object went across my room and into a void

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I was lying down and saw this velvety textured, maroon coloured cigar shaped object (ie minature indoor UFO) fly across my bedroom, about a few feet above me and into a void before my window.

My reaciton was it was not entertaining enough and immediately continued scrolling on youtube.

This happened about a number of months ago (can't remember), yet the recollection is vivid, especially how TEXTURED it appeared, and how it followed a straigt line path with an oddly consistant speed. The correct action would have been to freak out, attempt to touch object, but I felt like there was a peaceful fog all over me and I could only look at that thing but not really move. In fact, by the time there was a reaction that I may have made a movement, the whole thing already dissappeared into a void. (ie no void or portal could be visibly seen by the window, you just saw the object disappear by moving into it rather than it fading into space, etc...).

The reaction to this was that this was not entertaining enough. It's just an object moving in one direction across the room. That has no entertainment value other than appearing out of place with reality. Am I missing something? It has no relevancy, no reason for doing that, it does not compute.

Nothing of the sort has been since since that time.

But I feel there is always good content on youtube or other places to watch rather than worrying about a non-event. Maybe some probe got lost and went to the wrong house. Stupid.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Am I missing something?
You are missing the reaction. It may have been programmed to be sedating, but most people would still have a delayed reaction. If something supernatural happens and you are completely nonchalant about it, might be something to reflect on OP.
 
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You are missing the reaction. It may have been programmed to be sedating, but most people would still have a delayed reaction. If something supernatural happens and you are completely nonchalant about it, might be something to reflect on OP.
I don't want to give it the satisfaction of making it think it got me scared, better to mock it as not entertaining enough.
 

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I don't want to give it the satisfaction of making it think it got me scared, better to mock it as not entertaining enough.
Maybe it wasn't hostile though. Maybe it was like the black monolith in Space Odyssey. Some kind of positive impetus.
 

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Maybe it wasn't hostile though. Maybe it was like the black monolith in Space Odyssey. Some kind of positive impetus.
Something going through your bedroom, and invading your personal space, is not hostile?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Something going through your bedroom, and invading your personal space, is not hostile?
Is it going to slide in to your dm's on Instagram? How else is it going to get your attention?

Maybe it should hide in the bushes on the corner and hope that one day you see it.
 

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Is it going to slide in to your dm's on Instagram? How else is it going to get your attention?

Maybe it should hide in the bushes on the corner and hope that one day you see it.
Cigar shaped UFO's are a common sighting, when they are in the air. While on examination online, there are instances where people see these "micro UFOs" within indoor spaces, it's less mainstreamed compared to more ariel phenomina and disclosure.

If you encountered a UFO, would you feel more comfortable seeing one in the sky and hovering around or minature version of one inside of your home? People are scared when it comes to ariel UFOs enough, but you don't hear the same level of fright with indoor minature versions, like they don't register the same way. You would have aliens the size of ants?
 

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@corrector "I was lying down and saw this velvety textured, maroon coloured cigar shaped object (ie minature indoor UFO) fly across my bedroom, about a few feet above me and into a void before my window"

That object is life itself, speaking to you in metaphor: "I've been slipping away from you for awhile, hoss... Catch up with me, before your fuel tank hits empty"

I implore you to listen up
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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